Should Two Contacts Share One Phone Number in your Contact List

by Rod on September 9, 2010 · 5 comments

by Rod on September 9, 2010 · 5 comments

Contacts

If you are like me your list of contacts has universal functionality. The primary purpose is for email and phone calls, but you also have things like mailing holiday cards and birthday invites.  In all your contact list has names, addresses, phone numbers, social network information, instant message information, birthday, anniversary, and many other useful details. It is no wonder Chris and I have had a debate over the last 5 years around the best way to deal with having multiple contacts that all share a single phone number, like husband and wife or parent and child.  Before I explain our theories let me outline a potential issue this can cause.

Multiple Contacts with a Single Number

Imagine for a moment you have a contact Chris Ashley and Emily Ashley, husband and wife, in your contact list. They share the same home number but have different mobile and work numbers, so far nothing out of the ordinary.  If you put the home phone number on both contacts in your phone when a call comes in from the home number on most phones it will always show up as Emily Ashley.  I say most phone as we have tested this on the iPhone, Android, BlackBerry, and Windows Mobile and all except blackberry defaulted to Emily vs. Chris.

There are several schools of thoughts how to handle multiple contacts that have 1 or more numbers in common.

Option 1: Phone Number goes on 1 contact

Place the number in common with the person you have the strongest relationship with.  In the example above Chris and I have been friends for 32 years and 90+% of the time I am calling to talk to him.  The upside is inbound calls will always read as Chris Ashley. The downside is if you call Emily on her mobile and she does not answer to call he at home  you have to search for Chris to dial the home number. With voice dialing this may not be a huge concern to most.

Option 2: Create a single contact

Another option is to create one contact say Chris & Emily Ashley and put in the numbers for who you talk to most. This works great when you rarely call the second person or the second person has no unique numbers like mobile or work.  The downside here is obvious you do not have a contact for the person you rarely talk to.  Keep in mind with this option you are losing phone numbers and a variety of other contact option like IM.

Option 3: One Contact Per Person

In this option each person has their own contact with both unique number(s) (work and mobile) and shared number(s) (home and work).  This does create the problem we highlighted above where the phone does not know which of the two contacts is calling from the shared number. This option does allow for a contact picture for each contact if you care about this type of thing.  Additionally, this option allow you to look up the person you want to contact then deal with alternate contact methods without switching contacts.

So What is the Best Solution

I don’t believe any option is the best choice rather a hybrid of the options above.  After 5+ years of debating this topic maybe the current model for contacts could be updated to add some hierarchy to reduce redundant information.I figured we should ask the readers how in the heck do you manage your contacts and this problem?

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  • Neil

    Rod, to begin with, I just wanted to make a note of the fact that you used Chris and his wife’s name in your blog and also referred them as husband and wife, something you had grilled me on a few months ago when replying to one of your posts (recall).
    Now that we have that out of the way, I like option 2 and 3. I use both. On option 3, the phone would show Chris and/or Emily Ashley calling (on the iphone).
    Agreed, that you don’t know if its Chris or Emily calling until you answer but, even if you had their home phone number associated with a single contact – Chris, and Emily called, you would think it was Chris calling and be mistaken.
    There is no golden way of resolving this, UNLESS, they add a version of voice recognition that checks the callers voice before ringing your phone, then intelligently figures out if its the male or female voice in your contact and shows it accordingly.
    Maybe the iphone 5.3.5 might get this feature.

    • http://www.simplemobilereview.com Rod

      LMAO. Chris proof read and was fine being an example. Did he proof read your comment ;)

      Even Google Voice does not solve this issue with call screening but you are correct there is no perfect solution. Hybrid.

    • http://www.simplemobilereview.com Chris

      I figured after you put us out there it was all over with Neil. LOL I asked her a while back and she did not mind being on the site.

      • Neil

        LOL

  • neil

    On a similar note, I was just introduced to a lexus RX-350 (not mine). It has a cool feature where, if you call the desitnation person’s home number through the car’s phone, it automatically adds the destination address to the GPS and routes you to it..
    I thought that was a very cool feature.